In The Name of Allah Most Gracious Most Merciful

Assalamualaikum WRT WBT,

Yes dearest friends..i am now married and am expecting a baby Insya Allah in August..

It seemed like just yesterday i was in my single days, planning my wedding, having the jitters and sooo not looking fwd to being a wife. Why shouldnt i be?

Well...for a start, we barely knew each other before marriage...I could practically count with my fingers the number of times we talked --- tt was mainly because we either needed to discuss REALLY IMPORTANT things or we wanted to clear any misunderstandings we might have about what was discussed previously..most of the time..a third person would be present..i would say..relationship before marriage was almost non existent..

I remember days before the wedding..i was still wondering who's this person i was gonna marry..aside from his appearence..i felt tt i soo dont know soo much about him. I used to tell my friends that i was probably more or less like the JAPANESE PILOTS during the world war.."KAMIKAZE"..

Thanks to my wonderful friends - they were always telling me that things would work out, being by my side throughout the whole engagement period..until the big day..and the result MASYA ALLAH

ALHAMDULILLAH

Well guys..what can i say..i mean when we have faith in Allah everything will work out well..insya Allah.

I now truly believe that when u start something well..all will end well..

Things at first werent so easy..i mean, we wanted to try our best to abide by what was recommended by Islam..we tried our best to eliminate as much traditions as we could..u could imagine how our parents reacted at first..

To our surprise..though we thought lightning would strike during the wedding..in the end everything turned out better than planned..cant deny tt there few hiccups here and there..still we couldnt have asked for more.

Unfortunately didnt have much time to spend with family and friends in Malaysia..Anuar only had like 10 days of holiday..nevertheless we tried to make the best out of the time we had..Alhamdulillah....

LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE...:)

:) :) :)..all smiles, all smiles..

Eversince i got married all i want to do is smile..i completely forgotten when was the last time i felt sad..or cried (dont know whether tts good or bad)...

Anyways...i could basically sum up our story as "LOVE AFTER MARRIAGE"..so far after two months and a week after the wedding..life has been sweet & wonderful. When everything is HALAL..and having no restrictions with the relationship..the getting to know each other phase has been loads of fun....sharing stories, comparing notes about the engagement period..(how stupid i was thinking the things i thought about hehehe)..and the best part is...building a new life together..

Having the same aspirations and sharing more or less the same goals..have made things a lot easier....i have to say the best part about my marriage so far is having someone like Anuar..bringing out the best in me..and making me want to be the best for Allah..its true what Ummi once told me....Love Allah..above all else..and soon Allah will show u with HIS love through people around u..

Sorry dear but have to reveal this ;)

Anuar i must say..is charming, sweet, committed and honest. Its no wonder why his family love him soo much..i agree with Azza now,,when she once told me when i asked about her brother.."Anuar is the best son, best brother, best grandson, best friend, best neighbour etc etc etc"..yup Azza u r right..He somehow managed to charm my parents..which i could easily say is almost impossible ;)...everyone has their weaknesses..no doubt abt it..I do hope tt Anuar will be better than what we all think of him..insya Allah.

In addition to that I do hope that in return i could be the best wife for him..insya Allah.